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SPD Parent SHARE Host Testimonials
Here's what our SPD Parent SHARE Hosts have to
say about why they do what they do, and why they love to be part of
this family...
"My husband and I just began as hosts, and
what convinced us
to join was seeing the passion and dedication the people at SPD Parent
Share have for educating people about SPD. The information and support
we have received from this group has been inspiring.
Coming from the place
we started,
which was scary and confusing and frustrating, to a place of hope and
understanding, was amazing for us, and we want to share that with
others who are feeling those same things. It's never easy to see your
child struggle and be in pain, and to be able to give parents
information which can ease that pain, is such a gift. When we shine the
light on SPD, it makes it that much easier for the next family to get
the help they deserve."
Brook and Dan Brubeck;
Sabetha, KS Hosts
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"I decided to run the SPD parent
group to reach out to parents who have just learned about sensory
processing disorder. When my son first began exhibiting odd behaviors,
I had just moved to Virginia. I was really isolated and depressed. I
ended up meeting a friend who had a child with a similar disposition.
We became the best of friends and so did our children. She saved my
mental health. I still thank my lucky stars for her coming into my life.
Running the support group is a wonderful experience. I really enjoy
connecting to parents as they come to understand SPD, and share their
struggles and hope !"
Denise McKeon; Philadelphia,
PA Host
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"I'm usually not one to speak out and be so
'voicetrous'
until my life was
touched by my sons needs. I have changed and find it so rewarding when
I
have been able to share with others about SPD or educate other parents
on
SPD. And when you've heard how helpful it was by my speaking up,
well....it
warms my heart. It's a wonderful feeling being able to help just one
parent
help their child....just wonderful !! "
Janette Lopez; Center Moriches, NY
Host
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"I am so pleased to give to others
and see other parents giving, as it can seem such a lonely, isolated
journey. I want to give what I would have liked to have had myself
along the way from other parents. My hope is to make someone else's
journey a little less overwhelming and a lot less lonely, as well as
hope that each will pass along support and resources to additional
parents so that the community of informed parents of kids with special
challenges grows.
It feels like a grass-roots movement that is gaining momentum. We were
a rather isolated and sometimes hidden group, parents of special needs
kids especially those with the invisible disabilities, not so long ago.
It is a breath of fresh air to talk openly and honestly, to share the
pain and losses in facing the neurological issues our children have,
and to share the hope, successes, and deep meaning of raising our
beloved children to be the best people they can be.
This is a
special "been-there, done-that" community of parents who know
what it's like to be the best and worst we can be as parents as well as
"get it" when we talk about our kids being the worst they can
be without doubting that we still love them even with
steam coming out our ears and mouths."
Holly Seerley; Mid Valley,
CA Host
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"My child had been in
Occupational
Therapy for about 8 months when I decided to become a host. We had such
a difficult time finding information about SPD and other families to
talk about it with. Since I was a ‘pioneer’ in my circle of friends and
family, I had no one to get advice from as far as how to deal with the
day-to-day life, finding specialists and dealing with school. There are
plenty of other types of support groups in my area but none for SPD. By
word of mouth I found three families in my neighborhood who have
children with SPD.
With the support of SPD
Parent SHARE,
I held my first meeting. It was very small, only 4 attended, but it
helped all of us to just talk about our experiences.
They thanked me for starting the group but I have to say that it helped
me a lot as well.
I can’t wait until my second one!"
Katrina Oliver; Suwanee,
GA Host
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"While we haven't managed to get as far as
getting a group
started yet, we are excited about the prospect.
My dh is a chiropractor and is interested in working with SPD families.
He has done research and talked with other doctors who work with
children in the Autistic spectrum. Not only to treat them, but to help
make people aware of SPD and it's issues and to perhaps provide a place
of support. Everything we've done, we've done on our own, and a support
system would have been wonderful!
During his internship in school, he
had a family who came in and he immediately recognized the sensory
issues in their child, mainly because of his own experience with our
son. He was able to talk with them, and their relief at finding out
that there was a reason for their child's behavior, and some resources
available was amazing. So, this is an avenue that we would like to
explore."
Holly & Dr. Alan Barnes,
DC; Nampa, ID
Hosts
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"My name is Joanne. I'm a
relative "newbie" Host. I kind of floundered around by myself for
years. Most of what I learned was by observing my own kids
struggle. No need to be shy with this group. They are all great
people! They seem to love you no matter what. I feel a unique
kinship to them all. And hey, here we are, all struggling against
the same prejudices and obstacles, together. Guess what, we're
winning! Bit by bit we are opening the eyes of America, and
now the world. Together we are showing our children that this
world won't be such a scary place if we can just educate the
populace.
We are winning . . . not
for us, but for our kids!"
Joanne
Mills; Homosassa, FL Host
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Are YOU a Host? Would
you like to tell us why you love what you do?
We would love to hear
it!
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